Sunday, February 24, 2013
The Sad Part
OK fine. So apparently i can't really write a will :( Because there are some rules to follow. Oh well, sorry DD, I just ruined part of your happiness hahah.
Tuesday, February 19, 2013
Like Mother, Like Daughter
And another death came. Not that I'm sad or anything, because I wasn't at all close to my grandmother, but I do somewhat sympathise my mom. She's lost two important people in her life in 6 months. But because my grandmother was like eighty plus, and she had been bedridden for like a year, everybody expected her death, and no one was really sad. I mean, Allahualam, I don't know, but nobody seemed to be extremely sad. Except for the maids at my cousin's house. Oh boy, they were attached to the grandmother.
But anyway, I realised that, my mother is exactly the same as I am. Even though I much disagree with her on things, our position in the family is the same. We're both middle children, nobody listens to us (or whenever they do, they disagree) and we question a lot. When we were on our way home from my cousin's, which was a forty minute ride, she was complaining of how her sisters kept on bullying her and telling her how wrong she was, even though she knows she's right. I so wanted to tell her that the way her sisters treated her, was exactly the way I'm being treated, but I just couldn't.
I mean, seriously. Whatever I say, whether it's related to religion or school or my friends, my mom and my siblings would just be like, "oh okay," in a way that says nobody cares. But don't worry, I've learned to cope with it. Okay, well no. When it's about religion, they'd be saying how wrong I am, even though there's clearly evidence that proves me right. But what can I do anyway? Dakwah to family members is truly the hardest thing.
So anyway, all these deaths has got me thinking. I should write my will. Even though, it's probably not important for me, but hey, who knows? And besides, it's kinda fun hahah. Okay, next post!
But anyway, I realised that, my mother is exactly the same as I am. Even though I much disagree with her on things, our position in the family is the same. We're both middle children, nobody listens to us (or whenever they do, they disagree) and we question a lot. When we were on our way home from my cousin's, which was a forty minute ride, she was complaining of how her sisters kept on bullying her and telling her how wrong she was, even though she knows she's right. I so wanted to tell her that the way her sisters treated her, was exactly the way I'm being treated, but I just couldn't.
I mean, seriously. Whatever I say, whether it's related to religion or school or my friends, my mom and my siblings would just be like, "oh okay," in a way that says nobody cares. But don't worry, I've learned to cope with it. Okay, well no. When it's about religion, they'd be saying how wrong I am, even though there's clearly evidence that proves me right. But what can I do anyway? Dakwah to family members is truly the hardest thing.
So anyway, all these deaths has got me thinking. I should write my will. Even though, it's probably not important for me, but hey, who knows? And besides, it's kinda fun hahah. Okay, next post!
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