Saturday, April 16, 2011

Regrets.

The thing about regrets is that, it's pointless. Honestly speaking, you should never really regret anything. Because, what's happened has happened and there is no way you could redo it. What's happened is meant to be. It's been planned to be that way. But just because something that's happened is bad, doesn't mean there's no bright side of it. Every single thing that happens in this world, in your life, is for the better. You just have to choose to see it brightly. It's your choice, really.

Suppose you're sad after somebody you really loved died. Okay, yes, there would be pain. And it'll hurt for who knows how long? But then again, there's a world that's always kind to you. Fine, not always. But have you ever thought that it happened because it's related to you? And of course, nobody lives forever. Duh. Maybe you were a bad kid before that person died, or you didn't appreciate people enough, and when that person died, it teaches you a lesson. You never really notice something when they're gone, you know.

A lesson. Instead of taking something bad as a mistake or a regret, try taking it as a lesson. When you fight with your best friend, about something you did, don't regret it. It's like, it happened so that you'd know never to do it again. That's the lesson. But if you choose to see it as a mistake, and you'd tell yourself, "If I hadn't done that, everything would have been fine," you'd never find a way to solve it.

I'm repeating the same stuff over here. You cannot turn back time. Time is like a flowing river. It just goes on. It doesn't turn back, does it? Of course, if your watch is like, 10 minutes faster, and then you make it the right time, that's turning time but don't focus on silly stuff like that! But even if that happens, you can't undo your mistakes, can you? Even if you could turn back time, (which you can't cause that's one of the things that are impossible) what would you do? And when you change the past, how would you really feel? In the future or present or whatever I mean.

Conclusion is, there is no point of regretting things. See the brighter side of things next time, okay?

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