The Way I See It : School

In school, we learn stuff. We make friends. We go to school 5 days in a week. Okay, everybody knows that. Sheesh. I’m not good at doing the first paragraph. Can I skip it? Yes, yes I can. It’s my blog :P.

There will always be those popular people and those lame people in school. And then, there’s always that one kid who always gets into trouble. There’ll always be at least one good kid who finishes his/her homework and get straight A’s in exams. There’ll always be this one class that’s packed with perfect students. There’s always this one group of people that stays positive no matter how lame they are. Then, there’s always this one group of boys that are bad. In any school, there will always be groups like that. It’s just.. natural in some way.

About those popular girls… Are they really as bad as the people on Tv shows? Are they really mean? Do they really look down on lame people? I don’t really think so. I used to hang with them and they weren’t really that bad. Okay, fine. I admit, they weren’t really my type of people. I mean, I don’t really fit in with them. I don’t really know why. They’re the kind of people who are rich and smart and all that. And I’m not. I’m just not. It’s not that I’m describing them in a bad way. They’re nice la of course. It’s just me. I just don’t get them. But it’s great that they have their own way of speaking, of telling them they love each other, of making each other feel special, of fighting and forgiving. Sure, they are gedik but they’re also human. And, everybody can be friends with them. Just stop with the negativity. But then, they don’t really accept people who are lame in their group. Maybe they do, but to me, seems like they don’t. Popular people and lame people can’t mix with each other. At least, the way I see it.

Since the popular people are nice, what about the lame people? Aren’t they nice? Aren’t they cool in their own way? Well, actually, they are. They’re both nice and cool. Like the popular people, they have their own ways of talking. Just that, they’re a bit different. They make jokes a lot. They talk about not important stuffs. They don’t share the latest gossip. Okay, maybe they do. But only some of the times. They have nicknames for everyone. Weird ones. They don’t tell each other that they love one another but I bet they know that each of them are grateful to have each other as friends and they love each other. It’s just that, they don’t show it for some reason. Most of them are not matured yet. That’s the best part. To me, mature people laugh less. You would not believe how many times a day they break their laugh box xD. And, actually, they’re not lame at all. People just look down on them. But then again, they don’t really like being friends with the popular people la. That, I don’t know why.

Fights. We all have fights. Some people just have small fights and some people have really big ones. Fights happen because people do not want to give up(my definition :P :P :P). The last big fight I was in was with Lisa. It was more like, popular girls versus lame people. Just by that statement, you can guess who won, right? I mean, of course la the popular girls won because they have more people in their group and the lame people don’t really have that many. Sometimes I flashback to that time. I don’t know why. I mean, I really want to stop thinking about it. I mean, it happened already. But like, I just can’t let it go. Sometimes I wonder, do they think they’re the only ones who can’t let it go? But I don’t talk about it la. I just solve everything in my mind. I don’t want to offend others. And yeah, they say they forgive, but do they really? Sometimes, I think it’s just not sincere. Or maybe they just ignore my “hi’s” and “bye’s” because they’re just getting me back. But then, who am I to say that? So, now, I don’t bother to say “hi” or “bye” to them anymore knowing they won’t even reply.

And then, the boys. Boys are really cool people. I like hanging out with boys. Somehow, they do not get all upset and emotional when girls get mad at them. Some boys understand everything girls say. So like, it’s fun being around people who understands you. Sometimes, when in a bad mood and your best friends can’t help you, boys are useful. They’ll make jokes about what you did and you’ll get irritated but at the same time, you’ll feel better. I guess the boys have this weird magical thing that makes them fun.

Crushes. We all get crushes when we’re in school. Boys will like girls and girls will like boys. A crush is like a feeling you get when you like somebody. At least, I think so. Well, that’s my definition of crush. Anyway, when we like somebody, of course we won’t tell them. But for me, when I have a crush on someone, a part of me want them to know. But I don’t want them to know from me. Like, they just know. I don’t want them to be my boyfriend or anything, just friends and nothing more. But then, that’s me. What about everybody else? I don’t think they want people to know who they like. Having a crush on somebody is really fun. For me la, I like it. It’s like, enjoy it while it lasts ‘cause it’s not forever.

The teachers. Some teachers are really cool and some are just a pain in the ass but they’re our teachers and we have to respect them. (Look who’s talking) Have you realized that every time after a teacher leaves the classroom, the room suddenly turned into a zoo. Then, a teacher from the next class will come in and scold us and then, we’d be quiet for 10 seconds and be noisy again. It’s just the way students live in classrooms. It’s like, their own room with more friends and less decorations(or colour or furniture or whatever). And every time we see a discipline teacher, the girls who have fringes would be all, “Quick quick! I need a clip!!” and all the boys would be.. Wait, I don’t know what the boys do when they see a discipline teacher. It’s always like that. So silly.

In every school, there will always be homework. I hate homework! They make me stressed out! Maybe not just me, maybe it’s everybody. Sometimes I think the teachers just give us homework to make us suffer but I know it’s for us. To get smarter and stuff. Although the subjects like, Civics, Art, ICT and all that are useless but actually, I understand why we need to learn them. We learn Civics because it teaches us to be a civilized person. Art, we learn all those garisans and stuffs, it’s so that we know how to draw or something in the future later. Okay, that doesn’t really make sense. But, ICT, I don’t get why we need to learn it.

So like, school is actually a great place. Even with all the stressing out and evil teachers and popular girls, lame people, boys… Think about it, school is really a great place. I mean, how else did you meet your friends if it wasn’t for school? Would you have your best friends now? Would you have learned about people and their cultures or how they speak and stuff? Would you be as smart as you are now? No, right? So like, be grateful that you went to school. And, don’t hate school. Even if it sucks. Just think positively. If you’re not comfortable, sooner or later, you’ll adapt to the situation. Or whatever.