It's not fair

Life is not fair. Seriously, it's not. It might seem fair when you get something you want, but, really, it's not. It doesn't matter la it's now or in the afterlife. It's not fair. Do you think those really really rich people who gets what they want will be in heaven? NO! Well, no if they're not Muslims la.

Have you ever thought of changing your life with someone? Well, you better stop right now! Because, don't you think that person's life isn't fair? Okay, she or he might seem perfect, but I bet she or he has had much more rougher times than you have. If not, then... all I can say is , WOW!! But most of the people I want to change my life with, I discovered that when they have rough times, it's really bad. But their good times are really good. So, it's like, not accurate. I'm guessing I should love my life no matter what happens.

It's not fair when another person gets what we want most! It's not fair when we get average grades and our parents scold us but when our friends get bad grades, their parents don't scold them. It's not fair when we're in need of money and a person keeps showing of his or her money on our faces!! It's just not fair!!!

This world is full of unfairness. You may think now that it's the most unfair moment in your life. But, expect the unexpected. There are more surprises in life! More unfairness. More cruelty. More whatever. Like, this time, I like this one guy, but he had a girlfriend. When I see his relationship status on his wall in facebook, I'd be, "Man! It must be fun to be that girl! ><". But somehow I managed to get through the heartbreaking thingy. Now, I kinda realized that I was soooo pathetic that time and that girlfriend of his must had a really bad memory with him. Because, he's not really the kind of guy you girls would wanna like. Chatting with him is like.... chatting with an old man. So damn boring. And slow! So, now, I'm kinda glad I'm me.

It's not fair that this girl gets to win the fight you and her are in. It's not fair that she has more people on her side than you do. It's unfair that her mind works quickly and you need time to think about all the things. It's not fair that her friends are great speakers (that's not right, blahh) and your friends are quiet. But in the end, nobody really wins. Or loses. Because both of you will apologize to each other. Both will forgive each other. It doesn't matter how long it is. 3 days or 3 years, when that person realizes she's wrong, she'll regret it and apologize. And the other person will forgive :). So, any of you having fights, don't be stubborn la. Just apologize -.-''.

It's not fair that you are not a teacher's pet. It's not fair that that person gets the most attention. It's not fair that she or he always finishes his or her homework in time. It's not fair that they have nice handwriting and you don't. It's not fair that they get success and you don't. The key here is, you need to try harder. You wanna be a teacher's pet, you try to get A's and finish your homework in time. You want to get attention, then, attract some! When it comes to homework, everybody hates it. Don't care who la, but everybody hates it! Don't you think the teachers hate marking our books? I bet some of them do. Anyway, you just gotta try to NOT get distracted while doing homework. About the handwriting part, I guess you just have to practice writing more. Sooner or later, it will turn out neat.

So, any other unfair situations, just think positively. Like, how many people would wanna be you? You might think nobody wants to be you, but, who knows? Sometimes I wonder who would wanna be me. But it's best to be yourself. If you're not happy with yourself, you try asking other people, are they happy with their lives. Are they happy with you. If they are, then, why are you not? There is absolutely no reason for you to not be happy with yourself! When you're feeling down, there's always a person who is there by your side. The person who'll make you laugh even when you're sad. When they do that, you remember the good times you had. You forget about all those stuffs. The thing is, you don't think it's not fair. You think, it's fair. You got something good, you get something bad. Everybody gets it. Good and bad moments. Doesn't really matter who you are, there's always good moments and bad moments. And, when you're sad, think about the good times. Think about all the fun things in your life. Think about what funny joke your best friends made. About your new experience. How great your friends are. All those stuffs. Sometimes, you just have to put the bad stuffs aside. Because if you keep that bad memory in mind, and you talk about it with your friends, one by one, they'll leave you. They'll get bored. Better lose the saddle than the horse. Go find out what that means.

Conclusion is, we don't think that it's unfair. Think it's fair. And, don't let your friends get bored of you. Especially your best friends. They're the best thing you have.

Life is fair :)